多年來,因為個人思想由年少到白頭的變化,讓我漸漸地明白了什麼是愛.
我們對人表示關心是一種愛的表現,但並不一定會獲得回饋,也不一定會獲得別人的歡喜與接受.
因為,人這種動物總是自私而以自我為中心的居多.
一個男的,一個女的,他她們相愛了,無論是他她們愛上對方哪一點,最後在一起了.
然而,他她們總會發現對方的缺點而互相容忍著或者試圖想要改變對方,改變對方當然是為了滿足自己的高興與喜歡.
改變對方成功者少,失敗者多,失敗者會以分手收場.
一開始,男女愛上對方,就是喜歡對方,等在一起了,卻又要去改變對方.這便會破壞了你妳原來所愛的對方.
如果,一開始對方便是以你妳想要改變成的那種人出現,你妳們是不可能相愛的.
"愛你所愛"指得就是要永遠去愛"一開始的那個人".而不是要去改變對方.
我愛上一個女人便不會要她為了我而改變,因為對方改變了之後,便不再是我原來愛的那個人,因為,我因她的原來而愛上她,
一旦被我改變了,便不再是我原來所愛的她.
舉例來說,我喜歡一個騷勁十足的女人,當有一天她被改變得不騷了,他變成觀音娘娘了,我還會喜歡她嗎?
答案是否定的.
所以,你或妳若是愛上對方,請永遠不要去改變對方,否則你妳便不是愛你原來之所愛,而會以"因為愛他"為藉口而改變了妳們之間最一開始原來的愛.
好的愛人會說,我喜歡原來的你,請不要為我做任何改變,因為,我愛的人就是真正原來的你,請你當原來的你.
請不要為了取悅我,而變成不是原來的你.
Don't go changing, to try and please me
You never let me down before
Don't imagine you're too familiar
And I don't see you anymore
I wouldn't leave you in times of trouble
We never could have come this far
I took the good times, I'll take the bad times
I'll take you just the way you are
Don't go trying some new fashion
Don't change the color of your hair
You always have my unspoken passion
Although I might not seem to care
I don't want clever conversation
I never want to work that hard
I just want someone that I can talk to
I want you just the way you are.
I need to know that you will always be
The same old someone that I knew
What will it take till you believe in me
The way that I believe in you.
I said I love you and that's forever
And this I promise from the heart
I could not love you any better
I love you just the way you are.
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